Okay. I know some of us wear them, and some us don't. I was raised in jeans and have always been more comfortable in them. Personally, I feel like they cover everything and I feel they are modest. I don't feel like I am dressing as a man either. I don't at this moment feel it is sinful to wear jeans, capris or pants.
However,the skirts/ dresses issue has been coming up more and more. I keep reading of other women who have come to be convicted to wear them. Not to just to church, every day. I don't know if some of it has to do with homeschooling, because SO MUCH has changed with our life since we were called to home educate. When I bring it up, my husband always says he would prefer me in a skirt. I do know some of it has to do with my body since losing weight and getting fit. I am not a stick, I am very feminine in my shape, and am fit looking. I used to feel invisible when I went out. Now my husband says he sees men watch me walk away, give me the "up down" and he would feel better if I wore a skirt, so that some of the curve was hidden.
I was searching skirts online last night when I came across Jessica’s blog, and I had identical feelings and issues. I have uttered her exact words to my husband before “I am not June Cleaver.” She eventually was convicted to wear them.
So...I said all of that to say this- I don't know how convicted I am. I don't personally believe your covering for your legs (if indeed covered) will keep you from heaven. I do however, respect my husband. I am about to leave the house with the family to drive an hour and a half to a bigger town to look at TJ Maxx, Goodwill (oh the horror) and other stores in a mall to look for skirts. I HATE skirts. I love jeans.
I don't know how this is going to go. I may end up in a puddle of tears, or pleasantly surprised. And, because I saw some flack in comments on Jessica’s blog, I want to add that this entire thing is my idea. My husband has in no way pushed me, made me feel guilty, or told me I am not right with God when wearing pants. I want to in every instance in my life be right with God. I know that my husband also has my best interests at heart. I I will keep you posted.
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How funny! I was raised in jeans (horses will do that to you) but prefer skirts. Pants/jeans show every curve, and all the lines in pants/jeans draw the eye to one place in the front and another in the back. Ew! So while I didn't throw anything out upon my conviction, I did decide to just not replace capris and jeans that I still have once their worn out. Now - to find some longer denim skirts that aren't a zillion dollars . . .
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you in your endeavor. Don't let anyone go legalistic on you. Talk to the Lord, submit to your husband, and let the blessings come! :)
It's funny you mention this. Before moving to the UAE I had passing thoughts of wearing skirts more often, but never really did anything with those thoughts. When we moved to the UAE we had to pare down everything and bring with us the bare minimum. I decided to take that opportunity to change my wardrobe to mostly skirts. I have to say I have loved the switch to wearing skirts and dresses all the time. And this is coming from a girl who has to shave often (which is one of the reasons I've shied away from wearing skirts often in the past). The cultural modesty standard in the UAE is much more covered than in the US, so most of my dresses/skirts are ankle length and if I wear a knee length skirt, I will wear leggings or pants underneath. But I still wear skirts even when I know I'm not going anywhere that day, and it will just be me and the kids around the house. Anyway, I fully expect to continue my skirt wearing habit when I get back to the US, perhaps even when I visit the summer camp we volunteer with! Best wishes with your skirt wearing adventure!
ReplyDeleteI wear skirts or dresses perhaps 90% of the time. I mainly do it because I think I look better in them than in pants (very short-waisted and pants has always been difficult) and because I was feeling convicted (personally) about looking more feminine. My husband prefers me in skirts as well. I finally made the switch after our first trip to VN where I only took skirts because of the whole 'squaty-potty' thing. I ended up finding them more comfortable and didn't switch back.
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We all know I can only do skirts or dresses in the summer. I like warm legs. But if you want to shop for some, Good Will is a very good place to start. Great deals done dirt cheap! I love mine. TJ's or Marshall's are also good. Maybe it's because I was forced to were "leg show-ers" when I was young (no pants were allowed through much of grade school) is my reason for being and feeling so much more covered up in a good pair of jeans and a nice butt covering top or sweater. To each their own but it will take you some getting used to! Good Luck
ReplyDeleteSamantha, I will go and read her blog shortly, and I think it's a good question to ask (skirts). Before I got saved, I didn't own any skirts or dresses to my name...but over the few years since being saved and reading through my bible...I was convicted to wearing only skirts (husband saw me crying and asked why)--he never pushed the issue either, but he does prefer me in skirts now.
ReplyDeleteMind you I still have a pair of jeans tucked away...and (gasp) I wore them just the other night to a spouse coffee night. That night I felt weird the entire evening... I often wonder myself about the whole thing...but overall I do feel it is right to dress appropriately and you can do it with style.
I was reading my bible one night and was truly convicted by the holy spirit to change my ways...not only spiritually, but on the outside too. I do want to follow the Holy Spirit. It does set us apart in our mannerism and outward appearance as Christians.
Also, I don't go out of my way to look frumpy either... As a 30-something year old, I also don't go around trying to look and dress like a 15 year old either.
I hope you find some skirts that you'll love!!! Praying for you! Yes, and keep us update on your journey...it's an interesting topic. :)
I have no "real" opinion on this subject, as to I don't wear skirts unless that's all I have that fits, but I have read in some research where the skirt {dress} was actually the mans attire in old days! Woman were to be covered (with pants) back then and the men wore the dresses! Just my two cents. I don't remember why or whatever but I just remember that was a lesson about to where or not to wear a skirt/dress all day everyday. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking more and more about this myself...although I have not reached any conclusions. And, I personally LOVE Goodwill! I can no longer justify the cost of clothes from a regular store...they are just SO expensive. I'm looking forward to hearing how your shopping went...
ReplyDeleteI don't know who Jessica is : ) I think you should do whatever makes you feel happiest. To each his own. I do like the skirt you have in the picture though. I think you have a beautiful smile! Good luck with your decision.
ReplyDeleteGod has really been dealing with me more and more about this issue as well. And has been for some time now. Chris has even made mention of wanting to see me in skirts and dresses....especially since I NEVER wear dresses or skirts! EVER!!!
ReplyDeleteI don't know who Jessica is either ;) I just stumbled on her blog while looking online about skirts. I will post about the shopping tomorrow. The skirt in this picture would cost a bundle when shipping is added. I wanted to order...but didn't!
ReplyDeleteThat is so bizarre that you posted about this since I've been thinking about this lately. Basically, I had been revisiting the skirt idea because I know it makes me act and feel differently when I wear a skirt day to day. I'm with you-- I don't think it matters skirt or jeans as long as they're modest. But it might be something I need to do to remind myself who I am? I'm interested in hearing how it turns out for you.
ReplyDeleteP.S. In direct opposition to what I just said, I have started wearing pants (dress slacks) to church services recently but this has more to do with my legs being cold and I don't have tights or winter boots since we moved from Florida. LOL.
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ReplyDeleteThis is truly a personal decision about what you feel comfortable in. I don't believe the Bible teaches us to not wear pants, but to not dress like a man. :) And, those are two different ideas. You must do what you and your dh are comfortable with and you will not go wrong with that!
Jessica
It is wonderful that you are willing to do this for your husband. I wear skirts all the time; its just what I believe. I let my children make up their own minds tho.
ReplyDeleteCato's is a great place to find skirts. J Style is an online website that sells skirts also. They are a little pricey, but if you can catch the sales, it's not to bad.
This has always been something I've had confusion on. I do not necessarily believe the Bible teaches us NOT to wear pants, but to be modest. Yet, when challenged, I can definitely see both sides. I have the booklet, called, "What In the World Do I Wear?" It is written by a lady that is "skirts only" if you will. Very good references, but I've never been convicted. I know you wrote this a couple months ... how is it going?
ReplyDeleteRobin- It is well, going as you just described! I have still not felt convicted to wear them, even though I wore them for weeks! I am still wearing 99% skirts to church services, but really don't like wearing them daily. I feel feminine, but I can't dig in and work in them. I also have cold feet, and what do you wear with a skirt and socks?? lol I AM modest without a skirt, I see the plus of wearing them, and I also feel I am right in my heart if I feel more comfortable in jeans.
ReplyDeleteThe verdict so far is that I am not going to be a daily skirt wearer. Time will tell...
Yes, those pics were taken at Cumberland Falls in Williamsburg (??), near Corbin. My husband's family all lives in that area.
ReplyDeleteI am with you. Skirts and socks are not cute! Not to mention, my husband is does NOT want me wearing them all the time. I DO wear them to church, because they are dressy. However,laundry and lugging groceries in a skirt, just isn't me. And again, I'm just not convicted, if I were, I'm sure I'd do it.
OH, and I do have one funny story. One time, I was trying the whole skirt thing when our Doberman was a pup. UH yea, she was on a leash and decided to UNEXPECTEDLY take off running. NOT PRETTY... Face first in a skirt in the front yard. I think that may have scarred me for life :)
ReplyDeleteOH, and I do have one funny story. One time, I was trying the whole skirt thing when our Doberman was a pup. UH yea, she was on a leash and decided to UNEXPECTEDLY take off running. NOT PRETTY... Face first in a skirt in the front yard. I think that may have scarred me for life :)
ReplyDeleteThat is so bizarre that you posted about this since I've been thinking about this lately. Basically, I had been revisiting the skirt idea because I know it makes me act and feel differently when I wear a skirt day to day. I'm with you-- I don't think it matters skirt or jeans as long as they're modest. But it might be something I need to do to remind myself who I am? I'm interested in hearing how it turns out for you.
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